They may go on to date women their own age, or to move to different places, but we stay friends. And then every so often, their relationships end, and they return to me. When lots of stamina (and blissfully short recovery periods) meets confidence and experience, it’s a terrific combination.
Some women tell me they’d feel too insecure about their bodies to sleep with someone young, but when you operate on the criterion I do — that they have to be nice — you meet younger men who appreciate everything about older women.
In both cases, this may be due to the allure of the possibilities that come with mixing ages, interests and backgrounds.
She was his drama teacher, married and 25 years his senior.
I’d grown up with two older sisters so being around more mature women was nothing new but this felt different — very different.
As a result, my so-called casual relationships go on a lot longer than most people’s so-called committed ones.
I date younger men off and on over periods of 2, 3, 4, 5 — or even 15 years.
Like many boarding school boys forcibly removed from their mother at an early age, I tended to place women on unfeasibly high pedestals.
With her statuesque figure and alabaster skin, Judith wouldn’t have looked out of place atop a Doric column.The fact that she was strictly out of bounds added greatly to the mystery and the longing.James Innes-Smith fell in love with a woman 20 years older than him at the age of 15, the same age French Presidential hopeful Emmanuel Macron met wife-to-be Brigitte Trogneux.Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.“In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”An even bigger bedroom bonus?The rest of my team were married, living with someone, or dating, so they all made up fake personas.