Practicing Honest Communication Determining What You Want Maintaining Boundaries and Commitments Community Q&A Not everyone is ready to settle down with one partner.Some people choose to have multiple relationships at once for their whole lives.
Maybe this is the reason why you’re reading this blog, and it’s your dream to live this kind of lifestyle…
or maybe you just want to sow your wild oats for a while before settling down with the right girl.
More and more people I know prefer dating a bunch of people to one; you can be suspended in a kind of single-but-not animation that used to be reserved for old bachelors of indeterminate sexual orientation, and not be considered a jerky health risk.
But, at the same time, you aren't a Branch Davidian cult leader and you can't treat the world like a Waco sex compound, stocked with unstable teen runaways.
Either way, I’m here to tell you that it is more than Hollywood fiction and very possible.
That doesn’t mean it’s as easy as it looks on the big screen though, there are a couple of hurdles you need to take – and this article will walk you through them..action_button.action_button:active.action_button:hover.action_button:focus,.action_button:hover.action_button:focus .count,.action_button:hover .count.action_button:focus .count:before,.action_button:hover .count:before.u-margin-left--sm.u-flex.u-flex-auto.u-flex-none.bullet. Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. But S and I haven't had enough time to really get to know each other. I really like both of them, but I always consider myself to be a monogamous man and feel that if I continue to see S, I'd be cheating on M, even though M continues to say that we're just dating. I'm tempted to tell you that you should continue things with M while you get to know S, but you sound so stressed about the overlap that I think it's time to make a decision.If I end up saying goodbye to M in favor of S before S and I really get to know each other, I may end up losing them both. Some people can date around and make decisions over a long stretch of time, but you are uncomfortable with this much multitasking.I really like her and I could definitely see having a long-term relationship with her, but I feel I haven't given S as much of a chance.