Looking back, I’ve noticed that I’ve written about a dozen or more blogs to shed light on how many men approach dating and mating. Men fear being overwhelmed and taken over in an all-consuming relationship.For your convenience, these can now be found in the Dating Advice for Women Series How could he disappear so quickly after he came on so strong? Believe it or not, they also fear rejection and abandonment. The dating games men play are both unconscious and conscious games which create a maddening push-pull with your heart.
But then I mentioned it to my other single friends—both men and women—and they all professed similar experiences.
It appears the "the chase" has become something more of a war. There's the timeless art of seduction, and then there's being a jerk.
The game is a blast for both parties involved – until a woman finds herself wondering why the man who was “crazy for her” and “couldn’t get enough of her” has poofed after a few rolls in the hay.
Girl’s Game Changer: In order the separate the man who actually DOES fall in love with you at first sight and CAN go the distance from the players, a woman must pace the relationship.
In a similar vein, I sometimes like to look on dating sites – like – to see what single women are in my area that I might be interested in were I in the market for a new woman.
I do this knowing I’m not in the market for a new woman.When I look at different cars I realise that I’m quite happy with the car I have and forget about it.But when I look at different single women I find myself getting a bit depressed – but not for the reasons you might think. They tease us with clever poems, roses, daily texts and calls, only to turn around in the blink of an eye and completely disappear or disappoint us. Their behavior can be confusing, frustrating and maddening.Even though I love my car and would never change it, I sometimes like to look on car sites – like Auto Trader – at what other cars are out there that I’d be tempted to buy were I looking for a new one.