What I can’t understand is what you did with those feelings.
No, you should not have asked your husband, the father of your child, to move out of your house because you snooped through his phone and interrogated him about his sexual fantasies.
A: To go through your husband’s phone, wake him up to fight about a picture you saw there, then throw him out of your house: That sounds like an overreaction to me.
While I agreed with most of her advice, I bristled as she urged women to "leave sex out of your profile" because "it gives men the wrong impression and encourages those you aren't interested in." My guess is that 99.9% of dating coaches would preach the same thing: AND you will attract men who are incapable of seeing women as anything more than penis receptacles.
This kind of reductionist thinking is horribly unfair to both sexes and, IMHO, is one reason men and women don't trust each other.
I open it up and there I see a picture of one of his friends in a bikini, zoomed into her body and chest.
I woke him and asked him about it, and he, in a sleepy daze, admitted that he used it earlier in the night to masturbate to. My husband cheated on me over a year ago by kissing one of his co-workers after work. I gave him three days to move out, and said that if he does not comply, I’m taking my daughter on a mommy-daughter trip to give him more time.
We chatted privately, aroused each other and then we masturbated together (she aroused me and I her). It is zina of a lesser degree which does not trigger any hadd punishment. It is certainly a sinful act but of a lesser degree then unlawful intercourse.
Yes, but it is different form of zina than intercourse.
Their shared goal was to get girls to expose themselves on camera in the video chats.
Some sought out girls on social media networks, while others talked them into accessing the private chat room.
You have one shot -- a fleeting shot, given the cyber candy store otherwise known as online dating -- to make yourself stand out.
But you don't want to stand out to everyone; you just want to stand out to the type of person who shares your values -- sexual and otherwise.
So you're a single midlife woman and you care about sex? And no, I'm not just talking about women who are looking for casual fun, although that's a perfectly acceptable choice.