Men who cheat haven't fallen out of love; they've become unsatisfied with the current state of it.
"Cheating usually occurs in the phase of companionate love, when couples begin to settle down, have kids and solidify the life being built together," says clinical psychologist Andra Brosh, Ph D.

Loving your partner and being loved back despite the ugliness is by far the most romantic aspect of being with someone.
At the end of the day, it’s all about feeling good and being comfortable with each other without having to change who you are at heart.
Gradually she got to a point where she was able to wait till the third or fourth meeting and discuss it without upsetting herself or her companion.
And she learned to protect herself during the initial phase of a sexual encounter by wearing a silky cover-up, gradually working up to full exposure.
Even being in close proximity to him is difficult for me. Especially because I want so desperately to know that my mom is watching over me, but I don't want her to see me having sex with my husband! My response: You say you want desperately to know that your mom is watching over you, but you don’t want her to see you having sex with your husband.
I am not an expert in these things, but in your belief system, if your mother’s spirit is watching over you (just as she did when she was physically here with you), then now that your mother is part of the spirit world, I see no reason why she would not continue to respect your privacy here in the earthly realm, just as she did when she was physically here with you.13 of the most intimate activities couples should try The same way unicorns don’t exist, neither do perfect relationships.In the end, it all comes down to co-existing and building a life together with another human being. Leaving each other love notes is undoubtedly one of simplest ways that you can build intimacy with your partner. Remember all those sappy books you read, chick flicks you watched, and annoying Instagram pictures you forced yourself to like? Couples the world over have been fooled into thinking that what makes a relationship work is being able to chalk up as many lovely moments as they can and completely going ape-shit on the less-than-perfect ones.But with all the filtering and posting of only the good stuff, you can be sure that your perception of how couples really are is just the idyllic side of their relationship.A reader writes: My mother died recently, and although she was older and it happened rather quickly, still it was the saddest thing I’ve ever experienced.